♥Feb 26th, 2012

Hello ladies!

I’m on a long researching streak to make sure I answer your questions correctly and to make sure I give safe and healthy advice.

So I apologise for not getting to your questions right away. My biggest fear is giving unhealthy info so I’m making a point to double check all my sources.

Please be patient as I work to get correct information for everyone!

-Sam

PS: If anyone knows a good safe website or other source that I could use please let me know! Extra info is always welcome.

♥ Feb 26th, 2012 ohyestimelords: I have no real tips except that Spencer's Gifts sells easily accessible vibrators and if you look old enough they probably won't ask for ID, if they do that at all. I guess if you look like you're 12 they probably will. If this has already been brought up feel free to ignore.

Ohh good idea good idea! Ladies take note

thank you!

♥ Feb 24th, 2012 Anonymous: I'm sexy and I know it.

yes you are

now go masturbate

♥ Feb 20th, 2012 Anonymous: I'm having difficulty figuring this out. Although people seem to normally get turned on by touching the clitoris, for some reason that feels uncomfortable to me? I feel a lot more pleasure lightly tapping/rubbing the lower part, but if I do too much actual rubbing, that doesn't work, either. And sticking things in is out of the question. I'm also figuring out what the general mechanics of it are anyhow. Do you know any good general anatomy references? And places to find tips for specifics?

Here: http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/masturbatewomen.htm
that’s a pretty good site for all the technicalities!

You could simply have a very sensitive clitoris. Many women do.
Some women can’t even touch the clitoris due to over-sensitivity. Over stimulation of the clitoris can be really uncomfortable or even painful.

If you feel more pleasure when lightly tapping then expand on that.
Try avoiding your clitoris in general and just rub your vulva around it.
It’s all about learning your bodies likes and dislikes. Rubbing the clitoris directly bad? File that away for next time. Tapping good? File that away too. Just take your time and relax and experiment with your body.

♥ Feb 18th, 2012 Anonymous: I don't understand how to masturbate at all! Are you just supposed to rub yourself?

Well that’s one way to do it!

It all depends on your body!
Experiment a little!
You can use your fingers and rub your clitoris, that’s what most enjoy. Or perhaps some vaginal stimulation!

There’s tons of ways to masturbate. You just have to try different things and learn how your body works and what you enjoy!

This site here: http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/masturbatewomen.htm

could really help and goes better into technical detail

♥ Feb 18th, 2012 Anonymous: I have been trying out several masturbation techniques for a while now, but I've come to the conclusion that I really want a vibrator. I have found some cheap ones, but the only problem is my worries about it... how will I order it without anyone knowing (especially my mum and my sister), where would I store it so it can't be found by anyone but me, and what if it vibrates really loudly when in use? Not sure how you can help but I hope so. x

I must say I know this feel dear anon, I have this trouble too.

Though perhaps you have a friend who you’re comfortable with whose house you could ship it too?
Or, if you’re 18, you could goto a sex shop and pick one out? That takes away the shipping!

Hmm I’m not sure where you could hide it exactly. Is there anywhere that you know for sure you’re family won’t look through?
Or, you could create a false bottom to a drawer (plenty of online tutorials for that!)
Other than that I don’t know how to help you there, since I don’t know your room/living area.

and for the vibrating too loud part.
While using it, turn on some music or a fan to cover the noise.
Or there’s some brands/styles/types out there that are made to be ~whisper~ quiet. If you goto a sex shop don’t be afraid to ask an employee for advice! And remember to try not to be embarrassed! They work there and are definitely used to it! (and I’m certain they’ve answered much more embarrassing and awkward questions than ones about vibrators!)

I hope that helps!

♥ Feb 18th, 2012 Anonymous: I have kind of a two part question: 1. Is how can a retractable shower head be used for stimulation? 2. Is sometimes when I'm taking care of business, I go to use a toy, but it's slightly uncomfortable even with all systems go and I'm a virgin so will that ease with more practice?

1. The streams of water can create a pretty great warm/vibrating/pressure stimulation in your clitoris which for some women can end in a really great orgasm.

2. More practice makes everything easier!
And perhaps the toy you’re is a bit too big? That could create some uncomfortableness. Try with just one finger or something smaller and see if that feels better.

♥ Feb 17th, 2012 theprettygoodgatsby: I can't really think of any legitimate questions to ask, but I just wanted to thank you for making this blog! It's just really nice to see a place where women's masturbation isn't seen as something, like, really creepy and depraved. So, thanks! :)

Of course! I’m glad you’re enjoying the blog!
Womens masturbation shouldn’t ever been viewed as creepy or depraved or anything.
Thank you for the support!

♥ Feb 13th, 2012 Anonymous: Not so sure about Dr. Bronners specifically, since it is organic. But soap isn't generally very good for your genitals. You really don't wanna kill off a lot of the HEALTHY, natural bacteria that's there, which is something soap does.

Hmm another valid point, thank you anon!

When I have a better Internet connection I will do some research on lube alternatives and see if there’s anything really good and safe.

Thank you for your input!